Word
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective – James 5:16
Observation
It’s clear from this scripture that, though we must first confess our sins to Jesus for forgiveness, we must also do the same to one another. There’s a word for this, accountability.
Revelation
Most people don’t like that word, accountability. They’ll say things like, “My business is between me and the Lord.” This to me sounds like a crafty way of getting out of being held accountable for the sin they’ve confessed. Jesus most certainly guides us in our walk and helps us with the sin we confess. But He also established the church; a body of believers assembled for the glory of the Lord. Confessing sin one to another puts us in a whole new place, because now there are people in your life who can help you through your sin you’re dealing with.
If you just confessed the sin of pornography to the Lord only, you may be more prone to doing it again, then confessing again, doing it again, and on and on; caught in a vicious cycle with no freedom from the bondage. However, if you’ve made others you trust around you aware of your problem, you just might be less likely to do it simply because you know your friend could ask you at any moment, “Have you looked at pornography lately?” At which point you can lie (and then have to confess that later) or you can tell the truth and get help dealing with your sin and setting your free.
Devotion
Lord, make me a man that can handle the hard questions. I pray I continue to confess my sins to those around me I trust, and believe them to hold me accountable simply so that I may better serve you. Amen.

